Let love rule

Somehow the who­le of life runs by rules. con­scious­ly or uncon­scious­ly. Espe­ci­al­ly in the inter­per­so­nal sphe­re, rules have a spe­cial func­tion. But the­re are the rules of the past and the rules of par­ents. The­re are many rules that affect someone per­so­nal­ly, alt­hough he would not cla­im the­se rules for hims­elf. Rules regu­la­te our inter­ac­tion. They are the fine lines bet­ween what one should, may and can do.
 But rules can also be ques­tio­ned. Rules are equal to rules. The sen­se and pur­po­se of rules should always be che­cked. Many adults, espe­ci­al­ly in the field of edu­ca­ti­on, often noti­ce that they app­ly rules that are out­da­ted or meaningless.
One is wel­co­me to rede­fi­ne this rule. But living social beha­viour accor­ding to fixed rules is an important mes­sa­ge for child­ren. Most rules app­ly equal­ly to all mem­bers of the fami­ly. Even adults are not exempt from brea­king them.
Rules are ori­en­ta­ti­on. They set the direc­tion. Rules must be clear and upheld. But rules must be bro­ken.  In order for them to be reco­gni­zed and accept­ed as rules at all. But the most important rule that stands abo­ve ever­y­thing is always: Let love rule.